all in or overboard?

So this morning while I was running, God gave me this analogy (what does that say about how the run was going), either you are all in or you are out.  There is no in between.  You are either on the boat or you are swimming in the water.  God is not going to allow you to be pulled behind on a tube.

In life we are called to be all in or to step out.  In our marriages, in raising our children, in our faith, in our friendships. The problem is that too many parents or spouses live with the thinking that half foot in is an acceptable way to live.  My kids go to daycare so I can work.  Most of their time is spent in the hands of others.  So I must carefully guard the time outside of that, choosing to be all hands on deck in my parenting. Yes, that means I can’t do all the things I would like to or be all the places others feel I should be.  That also means I must make sure to spend quantitiy and quality time with my kids.  I have to say no to things because God has given me two very precious gifts and told me to watch over them.  I will not be like the man who burried his talents in the ground.  In marriage you can’t have one foot in and one out because marriages are created by a jealous God.  He knows what it is like to feel jealousy and wants no part of it in a marriage. We have to totally invest in our spouses knowing that God has created this union no matter what we have turned in into.  Because of that we must take the time to say no to other things (even good things) to make sure we are investing our hearts, our time, and our talents into our marriage and into our spouse.  Many people live thinking that there is such a thing as living as a lukewarm Christian.  I beg to differ. Christ says he will vomit such a thing out from his mouth.  Would he do that to someone that truly loves him? No.  Even in faith you are either in or out.  In the boat or in the water sinking.  You can’t have it both ways.  If you choose to live for HIm that do just that.  If you chose otherwise, be aware that this is the choice that you have made.

In a Revelations study that I am in, last night I realized something comlpletely new to me.  See I have always lived under the belief that when rapture happens and then later when Christ comes again, all the people who were in Hell would get another chance to choose Jesus.  That is in fact not the case.  They have already made their choice and there is not another one for all of eternity. 

Yes you read that right.  If your friend Bob dies as an unbeliever today, then Bob will spend eternity in the despairs of Hell.  Get in the boat.  Get out of the water.  Stop trying to live for the world and its expectations.  Chrsitians are the worst at protecting their time and the things that God has given them as blessings.  Not material things, but marirage, children, realtionships.  We get so wrapped up in good stuff that we loose focus on God’s plan and his desires for our lives.  It is time we realize the severity of what eternity WILL bring for those who are not sold out for Christ. We must choose to jump in the boat, all hands on deck, pursuing the all mighty God with every once of being that He has given us, protecting the talents He has given us, and working to further His kingdom by spreading the news of Christ Jesus.

service

I am so excited about the possible outreach opportunities to serve the community through PNCC.  I can’t be more excited about the planning that is going into it and am so thankful for all the people working hard to plan to make this vision a reality!

Happy Birthday

Today I honor and celebrate the birth and life of my husband, Matt Brown.  He is truly a wonderful man who has shown such Godliness and strength throughout our marriage.  Thank you Matt for your love and understanding ways, and for the fun that you bring to my life each and every day!  I love you as my husband, father to my children, and as my friend!

walk a mile

This has been turning over and over in me…I am really getting tired of seeing, hearing, and experiencing people being so self absorbed that they don’t take the time to notice those around them.  It amazes me how many times people ask the impossible of others without offering any help or ideas.  they expect everyone else to rearrange their lives to accommodate, but can’t put themselves in that person’s shoes for one minute to even try to relate to them much less experience what they are going through.  everyday is not peaches, roses and kittens for everyone.  before we decide to place judgements on others or to impose our standards on them, maybe we should step back and take the time to talk to them about what is going on with them.  People wonder why suicide rates are so high.  We put expectations on ourselves that are unrealistic then add on top of that the expectations of others add onto that people’s judgements!!!   Thank God that He exists to free us from the ideas of others.  Thank God that He makes the opinion of others irrelevant.  Praise God for f freedom from the condemnation of others.  For those who are those condemning others, maybe it is time to walk a mile in our shoes.  Try to think for one minute what life must be like for us.

lost and undone

We know that without Christ we are lost and undone, but sometimes with Christ you still need to feel “lost” but in a completely different way. Being lost without Christ means eternity in Hell and a life without the grace and blessings of Christ. Being lost with Christ means knowing that He is in control so we let go of the wheel and back off of the driver’s seat giving Him complete control of your life. This means that you must have the confidence in Christ to know that even though you may feel lost and confused at the moment, He is in complete control and knows the path that He has chosen for you. Keeping out of the driver’s seat is the hard part. Knowing that God should fill us up with His spirit and His ways and actually letting Him instead of trying to do it ourselves should be part of our daily focus. Let God find you where you are and take control of all the unknowns.

open my eyes Lord that I might see you

okay so this morning I took the kiddos for a bike ride. I say this to set the tone that the kids were hungry when we got back. So as I was cooking the kids breakfast, my two year old had a melt down because I gave her brother the pink cup and gave her the blue cup. He has a cold so I didn’t dare switch the cups. She proceeded to tell me that she was no longer happy and instead she was sad.Teaching lesson:
1. Don’t let something like the wrong color cup steal your joy.
2. Sometimes things happen that you might not like, but they are for your own good.

What a way to start my day!

finding your sweet spot

Okay, so I am reading yet another book this summer trying to help me stay fired up with everything else that is going on around me.  The book I am reading talks a lot about finding out who God made me to be by looking back over my life and doing two things: finding things I did well and things that I liked to do.  The author stresses that where these two things meet consistently, that is what God made me to do and be.  For instance if playing in a band was something that meets both of those criteria than and patterns itself through out my past, then most likely, God made me to be involved with music.  I am curious to see how this will play out once I can look deep into myself enough to find out who I really am and who God made me to be.  I just can’t wait to see what God made me to do and to finally find that “sweet spot.”